More and more frequently, people have been writing to me via the gmail account at the bottom of the page. Some have also left questions on the “About” page. But I find that I am repeating a lot of the same information, it’s just that no one else is seeing it, since it’s going back and forth through e-mail. Therefore, I just added a “Q & A” tab at the top, precisely for these types of inquires – you know, stuff other people can benefit from reading.
I don’t plan on becoming Merida’s answer to Ann Landers or Dear Abby, but it is kind of funny. Maybe this kind of thing runs in my family? Because at one time, my mom had an advice column of her very own, “Ask Alice”. Since I couldn’t come up with something that sounded as snazzy, it’s simply called “Q & A”. If you’re bashful, feel free to sign your name as anonymous. I hope others who read will chime in with their perspectives, too. Because I’m certainly learning new things all the time, and I do not consider myself to be the go-to girl for all things Merida! Well, not yet, anyway! But if you’d like my perspective or that of the awesome commenters popping in from time to time, please use the new “Q & A” tab at the top.
Here’s an e-mail that I received today, and it will be the first to be filed under “Q & A” :
Do you think I would be crazy to move to Merida as a single 50 something woman? I am sick with love for these colonial houses. Sick, can’t get them out of my mind!
I can totally relate to your sickness! You have to remember that you’re writing to a woman who is in love with Merida. With that said, I think you’d be crazy not to move to Merida! Yucatan is the safest state in Mexico. Although I’m not single, I feel like if I were, I would be perfectly content and secure living by myself in Merida. The only time that I’ve ever felt uneasy was during a late night trek to the bus station. If TJ hadn’t been with me, I would have taken a cab instead. There were lots of unsavory characters hanging around the streets leading to the station. But here in Houston, I would feel exactly the same way. There’s no way you’d catch me walking to the Greyhound station by myself at 2am either!
I am retired, an artist, and well, I have been considering Italy and France and darn if these houses and the warmth of the weather keep jabbing at me.
I love France and Italy, too. In fact, I have vivid dreams of a life in Sorrento. But sadly, my pocketbook wouldn’t have enough Euros to keep me afloat during the retirement years. One of the main reasons we selected Merida was for the lower cost of living.
Being an artist, Merida will undoubtedly meet your creative needs. The city has such a rich cultural heritage – museums, art galleries, dance studios, opera, symphony, and so much more. You won’t be short on inspiration in Merida!
Every realtor I talk to online of course says it is wonderful, etc.
They’re right, it is wonderful. However, there are some downsides, but that’s with anything. Some of them, in no particular order are: Traffic, pollution, poverty, blatant animal abuse, abundance of bad drivers, petty theft, and all of the other things you would expect with big city living. The benefits far outweigh the negatives.
But can you give me the nitty gritty?
Since I don’t live there full time, I don’t feel like I can really give you the true “nitty gritty”. You should really read some of Theresa’s entries. She’s funny and endearing with lots of great topics covering day-to-day living in Merida. Or go to an IWC meeting when you’re in town. From my perspective, other than growing accustomed to the mañana way of doing things, the biggest adjustment is the heat. I giggled to myself when you said that, “the warmth of the weather keeps jabbing” at you! Because in Merida, it will punch you smack-dab in the face! The heat is the one and only thing that may hold you back if you’re considering a life there full time. If you can handle the heat right now, when it is 98 degrees with a heat index of 109 degrees, then you’ll have no problem adjusting to everything else. We’re from Houston, where it’s very hot & humid, but the difference is that we have AC everywhere. The heat in Merida saps the life out of you, but if you can adjust, then you’ll have it made.
Do you think you would ever do this as a single female?
Absolutely! In a heartbeat!!! I would just make sure I’m living in a house with protectores on all of the windows & doors, and take all of the same precautions that I take now.
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